Professional Domination | BDSM
Professional Domination
My encounters with regulars in the OC spa community who requested pick-up play Dom(me) sessions informed me how mistaken clients were about the practice of BDSM. Partial to My own kinky and perverted desires; this inspired me to seek-out experienced and knowledgable kink educators so that I could curate safer, healthy, honest, risk aware, and consensual spaces for My submissives to explore their sexualities.
My interest in the psychology of the D/s dynamic in BDSM began in 2020. In 2022, I sought mentorship from a Professional Dominatrix based in LA, Mistress Damiana Chi. I studied under the guidance of Mistress Damiana and her team of “sub-coaches” (submissive coaches) for 9 months. Her program was helpful in developing my professional foundation in Femdomination (safety, client etiquette, practical skills, dominant language, etc.).
I continue to attend kink workshops in person/virtually to develop my own kink philosophy and methods. There is so much to learn from My FemDomme peers and mentors. When the opportunity presents itself, I’ll join My friends and partners at queer POC play parties. And even outside of play time, you’ll catch me reading things like Literotica, theory or any type of media that fuels My imagination for more playful, (and if you’re lucky) ethereal scenes.
To learn about my kinks and how I like to play, visit My About section.
My interest in the psychology of the D/s dynamic in BDSM began in 2020. In 2022, I sought mentorship from a Professional Dominatrix based in LA, Mistress Damiana Chi. I studied under the guidance of Mistress Damiana and her team of “sub-coaches” (submissive coaches) for 9 months. Her program was helpful in developing my professional foundation in Femdomination (safety, client etiquette, practical skills, dominant language, etc.).
I continue to attend kink workshops in person/virtually to develop my own kink philosophy and methods. There is so much to learn from My FemDomme peers and mentors. When the opportunity presents itself, I’ll join My friends and partners at queer POC play parties. And even outside of play time, you’ll catch me reading things like Literotica, theory or any type of media that fuels My imagination for more playful, (and if you’re lucky) ethereal scenes.
To learn about my kinks and how I like to play, visit My About section.
Booking a Pro-Domme Session
- For Domme Sessions you will address me as Mistress.
- Read my website thoroughly.
- Fill out and submit the BDSM Pro-Domme Session application. I takescreening very seriously. Incomplete applications will be ignored. My screening process is for safety purposes and your information will be kept confidential.
- If selected, you will receive an email from me within 48 hours. If you do not hear back from me it means your application was rejected. You may try again but do better.
- Please take your time and be intentional with this process. I only select applications that are written thoughtfully and inform me of our compatibility. If selected, you will receive an email from me within within 48 hours.
| Tribute |
Upon approval of your application, you will pay a non-refundable $200 deposit to secure your appointment. Your deposit will be made via Cashapp, Venmo, or Amazon giftcard.
- When sending the deposit, label it as "gift from [your name]".
- Cashapp $trinitysaetang
- Venmo @trinitysaetang
The tribute remainder will be paid in cash. On the day of the session you will be expected to place it on the counter after you greet me inside the room. Understand that all payment is an exchange for my time; labor and skill to craft a scene; our pre-session phone call; and location costs.
| Day of Session |
Shower before our session. Good hygiene is practical and respectful. You will be fully naked while in submission to me.
If you are running late or must cancel, communicate this ASAP.
I will send you a confirmation text/email a day in advance to confirm your appointment. Once confirmed I will send you the address of the location. You will text/email me when you have arrived and I will respond back with detailed entrance instructions.
You will be expected to place the remaining tribute amount in cash on the counter after greeting me inside the room.
You will address me as Mistress.
Shower before our session. Good hygiene is practical and respectful. You will be fully naked while in submission to me.
If you are running late or must cancel, communicate this ASAP.
I will send you a confirmation text/email a day in advance to confirm your appointment. Once confirmed I will send you the address of the location. You will text/email me when you have arrived and I will respond back with detailed entrance instructions.
You will be expected to place the remaining tribute amount in cash on the counter after greeting me inside the room.
You will address me as Mistress.
Client Reviews for Domination Sessions
“...it felt like I was ‘cheating the system’...”

“… That was one of the most intense sexual experiences of my life and definitely not an orgasm I'm forgetting anytime soon. In some strange way, it was almost too much. What do I mean by that? An orgasm that deep comes with some weird emotions. The best way I can describe it is that it felt like I was ‘cheating the system’. Like a person is not supposed to have such an emotional rush and not be in a relationship…”
– d.
– d.
“Being used by you and completely under your control was one of the most liberating and rewarding experiences I’ve ever had…”
“...Thank you for your patience with me, especially at the beginning. Thank you for showing me a side of life that I have never experienced, one that brings meaning into my life. I’m very grateful for the opportunity I had to serve you, and I can’t wait for the next.”
– g.

“I want you to know how important our time together has been to me and I want to assure you that my devotion to you is 100% genuine. I love doing everything I can to please you because I really do want to make you happy no matter what it takes. It’s been an honor and a privilege to be your foot slave and becoming your cuck and human toilet has made me feel that I’m officially your property now. The opportunity to serve you has been life changing.”
– s.
– s.